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By Lisa Petrilli

The word networking, for many people, conjures up images of uncomfortable resume swaps, nametags, bad coffee and socially overpowering individuals attempting to schmooze their way into a sale.

Having worked for the last four years with two clients who are major networking powerhouses, including CEO Connection, I can say definitively that those who “get” networking know the truth:

  • It’s about a genuine interest in others’ success. 
  • It’s about creating quality relationships where you “give” without any expectations of receiving in return. 
  • It’s grounded in the knowledge that giving is often more fulfilling than getting and that the Universe has a way of bringing things full circle for the benefit of all givers.
  • It revolves around the powerful question, “How can I be of help to you?”

 

What I came to realize early on with Twitter, and what I have been sharing with executives ever more frequently in the last few months, is that Twitter can amp this up tremendously.  How?  Let’s look at how Twitter provides a jolt of electricity in the following three ways…

1. Expansion Power

Twitter enables you to take the number of people in your business network that you “keep up with,” and have a relationship of familiarity with, and ramp it up dramatically.  Malcolm Gladwell has written of Twitter relationships that they won’t start a revolution, but I know that they’ll lead to new business, new collaborations and the birth of new ideas.

A tweet I sent when on vacation in Hawaii about how I was getting rained on while dining al fresco was answered by a gentleman who was, at the same time, having breakfast on a train in Europe. I had met him very briefly months before that at a conference; we Direct Messaged each other about how Twitter brings people together from around the world and ignited a re-connection. 

He mentioned what he was working on – which led to me hiring him for a speaking opportunity with my client – which led to me connecting him to several members of my network – which has led to a major new account for him… 

Simply put: you can never underestimate the power of a tweet – even a personal tweet – sent ’round the world.

Moreover, my ability to keep up with what is happening in the business lives of acquaintances that are in my regular “in person” network has increased dramatically.  We can quickly and easily share links to information about marketing and leadership which strengthens our relationship and makes us smarter at the same time. 

Others in my network see these interactions and share them further – often to executives at the far reaches of the planet – multiplying the impact to our larger network in a way that simply cannot happen with email and phone calls or even with Facebook which relies on the acceptance of invitations for information and ideas to be seen.

The impact?

When I meet someone new I begin to think about who on Twitter has the same type of business focus and might be a great contact for them from a collaboration or new business perspective.  I find myself connecting people from around the world that would never have met otherwise and who have conversations that lead to dynamic, new global business paths. 

Everything that’s wonderful about networking in business is amplified on Twitter.  And your network is no longer local – it’s global!

2. The Power of Vast Knowledge, Experience and Information Sharing

I mean this with every brain cell I have…I have learned more from my Twitter community in the past two years from the sharing of insights, ideas, advice and links to brilliant blog posts and articles than I ever could have learned attending in-person networking events or reading the major news outlets alone. Hands down the Twitter community of business leaders is exceptional when it comes to being at the forefront of knowledge and technology and the transformation of business and life.

What does all this sharing lead to? Relationships. Many of which lead to collaboration and business generation.

And a great deal of this information gets shared in Twitter Chats:

The Twitter Chat that gave life to the world of blogging for me is #blogchat, which occurs every Sunday evening at 8:00 pm Central Time and is led by the inimitable Mack Collier.  Without my regular attendance at #blogchat over many months, first lurking and then actively absorbing followed by eagerly participating, I would not have had the confidence to launch my own blog or to create, launch and Executive Edit the MENG Blend Blog for my former client. 

By the time I launched both blogs I was fully knowledgeable on all facets of blogging, and my own personal blog launch was so successful that I was invited to write an article about it for MarketingProfs which I titled, “What I Did Right: How I Averaged 80 Comments and 135 Tweets (per post) in My First Week of Blogging.”

The depth of my experience on #blogchat led me to co-Found and co-Lead one of the newest chats on Twitter, #LeadershipChat, which I lovingly lead with my brilliant, savvy and witty partner Steve Woodruff. It’s been one of the most personally fulfilling initiatives I’ve pursued all year, as genuinely smart, experienced and insightful leaders are gathering every Tuesday evening at 7:00 PM Central Time with us around a “virtual but bountiful Tuscany-inspired table” to talk about leadership.  As one of our participants put it in a tweet…

RichardNatoli It was a great chat. I never thought twitter would hold so much value for me. #leadershipchat

3. Cause-Inspired Power

I met Social Media Consultant Tom Martin on Twitter.  We realized we had common business goals and decided to have an offline phone call, which led to further connections being made on both sides.  Tom and I also met our friend Lisa Diomede via Twitter, and separately became “real-life” friends with her over cocktails.

When Tom’s client, the Drake Hotel, decided to create a sophisticated new initiative to raise money for non-profits, Tom reached out to Lisa and I to co-hostess the inaugural Cocktails4Causes event, which I introduced and invited you all to about a month ago. 

Key point: Our only method of invitation was social media, primarily Twitter – we had no email list to speak of. 

We used #Cocktails4Causes as a unique Twitter hashtag to give the event more Twitter visibility.  Twitter was how virtually everyone who attended heard about the event.

It was a phenomenal success.  (Follow The Drake Hotel on Facebook to see photos from the event.) We had more people attend than we dreamed would attend in the middle of the week during the holidays with only two weeks notice to get it on the calendar!  We raised money for a cause close to my heart (living kidney donation) and met a number of cause-minded people who we never would have otherwise met.

One gentleman saw a tweet about the event at 5:00 pm that evening – an hour before the event started – thought it sounded like a good cause, signed up himself and his wife, and spontaneously joined us for the event –  having a wonderful time in the process.  To wit, I met him that evening and have since hired him to do some creative design work for me.  Networking, folks…

In this case Twitter:

  • created the relationships that led to the opportunity to raise money for something truly personal to me,
  • led to something personally fulfilling in co-hostessing a spectacular event,
  • and enabled me to make a difference in a way I never would have imagined before. 
  • And it served as the primary communication vehicle to invite like-minded and socially-inspired individuals to attend.

 

How are you using Twitter to amp up your business networking? Please share in the comments, below.  I learn so much from my readers and appreciate all your insights!

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Photo is AmplifyNeuralNetwork by MikeBlogs.

23 Response Comments

  • Steve Olenski  December 20, 2010 at 8:07 am

    Hey Lisa,

    You know you don’t need to convince me of the power of Twitter…

    I have written numerous posts, as you know, re: social media in general and the number of incredibly talented folks like yourself i have had the pleasure of “meeting.”

    Your examples are inspiring and should be cause for ANY one who doubts the neverending possibilities social media affords anyone who uses it properly… 🙂 Had to put that caveat in…

    Keep doing what you’re doing and we’ll keep reading and learning… 🙂

    All the best,
    Steve O

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    • Lisa Petrilli  December 20, 2010 at 10:56 am

      Steve,

      Absolutely – you’re one of the “gets it” guys, and I love that about you! I’ve just been meeting more executives lately who are very open to understanding more about it, and I see this post as a template for me to explain it to them – and for my readers to use to explain it to their execs.

      Your caveat is well placed – all of this goes back to using these opportunties appropriately. In this case, asking how you can be of help and letting things grow from there.

      I appreciate your support more than you could possibly know, Steve – it’s been a joy to get to know you this year!

      Warmest holiday wishes…

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  • mack collier  December 20, 2010 at 8:12 am

    Lisa I really think the networking potential of Twitter is seriously overlooked by many people. I think too many people get caught up in getting RTs, and don’t realize how creating and nurturing connections via participation can have such a big impact. Just as you have seen here, Twitter has been a boon to activity on my blog. I would say the number of comments on my blog has increased by about 300% since I started promoting my posts to my Twitter network.

    And obviously, I am a big fan of Twitter chats 😉

    Hope you and your readers have a very Happy Holidays!

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    • Lisa Petrilli  December 20, 2010 at 10:59 am

      Mack,
      I agree with you, and I want so much for others to be able to get from it the value that we’ve both received from it! I love that you used the word “nurturing” – because so much of that is needed. It’s time consuming in some ways, but I think Twitter makes it easier to nurture a number of relationships at once.

      And yes, I can see that you’re a fan of chats. Honored to have you as part of the #LeadershipChat community! 🙂
      Wishing you the happiest of holidays as well – sending holiday hugs…

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  • tom martin  December 20, 2010 at 9:02 am

    Lisa,

    What an awesome post… I just shared on my FB and in a moment will do so with my Twitter too… you answered the “Why Twitter” question so perfectly.

    SocMe is all about the network effect and most importantly, the ability to remove our former geographic boundries. It’s what I love about the entire space.

    If it wasn’t for Twitter I would have never met you and Lisa D, would have two fewer friends in the world and wouldn’t have had a great excuse to visit Chicago in December for a grand party ;-))

    And to your point of how business can come about as a result of simply networking or doing for others — it looks like that little #Cocktails4Causes event may next year scale out to a national level Cause Marketing program that will result in hundreds if not thousands of #Cocktails4Cases parties around the country, which will be great for non-profits around the country and not a bad gig for me. All because I was lucky enough to meet two great gals on Twitter. Go figure….

    @TomMartin

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    • Lisa Petrilli  December 20, 2010 at 11:02 am

      Wow – go figure. 🙂 Tom you gave me goosebumps reading that last paragraph! How exciting for you and The Drake Hotel. I’m just honored to have been a part of launching it and so very proud of what we created together. It was a grand night and a grand debut!

      Thanks so much for the kind comments about the post and for sharing it with your networks – that means the world to me! All the best to you for the happiest of holidays and a New Year full of great joy!

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  • Jim Everett  December 20, 2010 at 9:28 am

    Lisa, this really summarizes the power of Twitter. I really started getting into using Twitter just at the end of September. In those 3 short month I have made incredible connections with amazing people that would have been very difficult to meet any other way.

    What flipped the switch for me about Twitter was Scott Stratten’s (@unmarketing) book tour event in Minneapolis. He said, “Twitter is a place to start relationships, not a place to make sales.” That’s when I started to get it and now with practice, I’m getting it at deeper levels.

    Thanks for your post. So many people still think Twitter is a joke and have no idea what they’re missing out on.

    Jim

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    • Lisa Petrilli  December 20, 2010 at 11:04 am

      Jim,

      I’m so glad to hear about how Twitter has amped up your connections – and I’m not surprised at all that Scott Stratten played a role. He is a brilliant user of it and is so genuine about creating relationships.

      Thank you so much for the kind words and have a very blessed and joyous holiday season!

      Reply
  • Steve Woodruff  December 20, 2010 at 11:12 am

    The people “found” via these networking tools make us all richer. Especially people like you, Lisa. So glad we connected this year!

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    • Lisa Petrilli  December 20, 2010 at 11:29 am

      Agreed! Wish I had thought to end the post with that – brilliant point.

      And I’m so glad we connected as well, Steve. Looking forward to a lot more fun and collaboration in 2011! Warmest wishes for holiday joy to you and your whole family…

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  • Jonathan Patrick  December 20, 2010 at 7:54 pm

    Lisa-

    Love your points about genuinely caring and “giving”. Absolutely agree.

    My only complaint about social media is that at some point in order to build a truly deep business relationship you need to meet face-to-face.

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    • Lisa Petrilli  December 21, 2010 at 7:30 am

      Hi Jonathan,

      Thank you so much.

      I understand your point about social media. Maybe instead of seeing it as a “complaint” we can see it more as an opportunity to connect with more people from around the world that we *want* to meet face-to-face…? You’re absolutely right, nothing beats face-to-face when it comes to deepening our relationships.

      Thank you so much for taking the time to share your thoughts – I sincerely appreciate it! All the very best to you for the holiday season!

      Reply
  • Marjorie Clayman @margieclayman  December 20, 2010 at 8:03 pm

    It’s so true! I can hardly believe that at the beginning of this year, Twitter was more a thorn in my side, if anything. I didn’t think I’d ever “get” it. I thought my evangelizing about Social Media in general may have been too passionate, too soon. I didn’t understand how it seemed like everyone had a BFF while I couldn’t get a response.

    Blogchat, as I’ve said many times, changed everything for me as well. I happened to see it mentioned in my stream, jumped in, and have never looked back. The exchange of ideas amongst professionals who generally have the same interests (at lightning speed) is such an amazing experience – and I’ve recreated that experience in many other chat communities and in other places on Twitter and on my own blog.

    It’s a great feeling.

    I hope to make Civil War cookies with you some day – we could sell them for charity to our other Social Media friends 🙂

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    • Lisa Petrilli  December 21, 2010 at 7:33 am

      Margie,

      Seeeeee? Only through Twitter could we have realized our mutual love for history *and* cookies! 🙂

      So glad you found blogchat and that we’ve been able to connect. I know that we’ll have the opportunity to meet IRL very soon, and I am genuinely looking forward to that day! Warmest wishes for the happiest of holidays, Margie!

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  • Matt Hixson  December 20, 2010 at 10:11 pm

    This is a really great post. There are so many blog posts out there about social media that don’t get the core is about building relationships. This is a topic near to my heart. I’m glad I found this blog and will be following from now on.

    Have a great holiday.
    Matt

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    • Lisa Petrilli  December 21, 2010 at 7:36 am

      Matt,

      I can’t tell you how much I appreciate that. I love that you say this topic – getting to the core of social as relationships – is near and dear to your heart. Then we’re going to love mulling this stuff over together!

      So glad you found me and honored to know you’ll be following from now on. I hope you’ll join us on #LeadershipChat to share your thoughts there and to meet other smart Twitter relationship builders. All the best to you this holiday season!

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  • Jonathan Saar  December 21, 2010 at 10:19 am

    I just stood up and did a private standing ovation over this post. Lisa this exactly how I felt about this tool once I got to know it better. It has brought my industry much closer together and it has helped me connect with some of the coolest people on this planet who have helped me in more ways than they know.

    For those who “get” networking in the new sense will appreciate that. Those who look at this platform and hope to achieve the same goals as they did with other directions will be sadly disappointed. I particularly likes your powerful question “What can I do for you”

    That singular approach is what defines the word social. It’s not about me..it’s totally about you.

    Thank for the post Lisa

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    • Lisa Petrilli  December 21, 2010 at 10:28 am

      Jonathan,
      I’ve never received a virtual ovation before – thank you from the very far reaches of the bottom of my heart. 🙂 So glad we’re both having the same experience with Twitter – I think it’s been a life/career-changer in so many ways.

      Your friendship has been such a blessing to me this year, Jonathan – I hope your holidays are filled with great joy, love and warmth!

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  • Jeannie Walters  December 22, 2010 at 9:15 am

    Lisa – You know I believe in the power of Twitter and totally agree with you on this. Without Twitter, I would not feel as connected to the world as I do. I even found one of my best clients via Twitter – just by answering a question thoughtfully.
    p.s. Enjoyed #leadershipchat last night, too! 🙂 Happy holidays to you!

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    • Lisa Petrilli  December 22, 2010 at 4:20 pm

      Jeannie,

      THAT is the magic at work! So glad that we had a chance to connect this year – albeit briefly – and hoping that 2011 has us spending more time together coming up with great ideas to bring to the world! Thank you for being a part of the #LeadershipChat community – hope to see you there as often as possible given your busy schedule. 🙂 Warmest holiday wishes to you as well, Lisa

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  • Davina K. Brewer  December 28, 2010 at 12:54 pm

    Lisa, Great examples on doing the Twitter netWORKing thing and yes I emphasize the work part as it’s one of my favorite tunes about social media, Twitter in particular. Just like the regular networking, you gotta put in the time and effort. Say you’re at that in-person, business card swap meet: Would you get anywhere standing in a corner, cut off? Or talking only about yourself, never asking others about what they do? I probably doubt it.

    Your #2 has been my biggest reward: learning. Reading, writing, commenting, growing as a professional via my Twitter network. Most of the people I follow are great curators, share things worth reading and often introduce me to stories, writers, others to follow I’d have never “met” without Twitter. FWIW.

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    • Lisa Petrilli  December 28, 2010 at 1:54 pm

      Thank you Davina and thank you for sharing your WORK experiences here. I couldn’t agree with you more and I’m so glad to know that you’ve received such great reward from Twitter as well. Isn’t that true about the people we meet – they introduce us to other amazing people and stories that inspire us to think differently and sometimes bigger.

      So honored to have had the chance to meet you on Twitter this year as well! Have a very Happy New Year, Davina!

      Reply

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